I dont know and just dont know what reasonable reasons I can give away for what I am going to write right now..
I just cant stand a man who yell like hell to a woman
I just cant bear a man who think he has authoritative power in a family then act stupidly with that thought..
I just cant face a man who treat other people like he is the only holy man in this world and others are just useless animals..
I just dont know how to respesct a man who is also a husband and a father when he just never show he is good in being those accept hurting other's feeling..
I just dont know how to react to a man whose words that come out from his mouth are full with sh**** words, blowing them to the air when he got angry..
My sis told me not to get angry or feel hard with this type of man, cause they may be sick or some kind of 'loss a bit of his consciousness'..Ok, I'll try then but still it is not an easy things to bear with.
She said further, we just cant do much when it comes to people's attitude. What we can do at least, is to PRAY and PRAY and PRAY..Because we never know exactly the power of PRAYER, but Allah already promised about the POWER OF DU'A..who knows, there will be a single touch by HIM will change him in a seconds..Allah do always provide us hope. PRAY FOR THE BEST FOR EVERYBODY
And one more thing, she mentioned it, WE ARE NOW BEING TESTED..All the things happen to us are merely tests from HIM..TESTS :to test us, test our reaction that reflects our IMAN..to test our reliance on HIM in any conditons..
O' Allah, Rabbul Jalil..the Ultimate Owner of LOVE and HAPPINESS..also the Ultimate Owner of SORROW and SADNESS..I just need you to go through this..I do have the hatred feeling right now, towards the attitude and not to the person...
O' Allah, please give me courage, also to the people around me..To face these tests with your kind rememberances and peaceful blessings..Please shower us with your warmth love, Rahmah and Barakah and pleaseeeee, never let us gone astray and away from your close supervision...We just need you, really need you..
be strong ya..emotions are just another test.